Colossians 3:14 AMP
Beyond all these things put on and wrap yourselves in [unselfish] love, which is the perfect bond of unity [for everything is bound together in agreement when each one seeks the best for others].
All these things are characteristics of love found in verse 12. The only way they manifest is by you putting on Gods love. Planting it deep on the inside and allowing it to flow and grow through you. Blessings!